So here it is Valentine’s Day. I initially was going to rant about how this day is not about love and only about how much money a person has to spend to adequately show their love to another. That this isn’t actually a holiday at all, but a manufactured event of greeting card companies to sell more greeting cards between Christmas and Easter. But that is just being miserable for the sake of being miserable so I decided to focus on what the focus should be on this day, LOVE.
Love Has Everything to Do With It
When I heard the word love, for much of my life I thought about the romantic emotion of love. However love is more than just an emotion that you feel when you are around someone you care about, it is a force that can help make your life and those of others better each and every day. Love is the fertile soil from which kindness, charity, acceptance, understand all grow out of.
Kindness Counts Today
Kindness seems to me to be one of the things that we should be focusing on every Valentine’s Day. There are opportunities in each of our lives to just show a little kindness to another person. It doesn’t cost a dime to be kind to anyone. So the next time you interact with someone, be it, someone, you have known your whole life or a complete stranger, just approach them with kindness and not only will they feel better about the world and themselves but you will too.
Patience is definitely a Virtue
Another branch of the plant of love is patience. When you get frustrated it is usually because you are not focused on the here 
and now but because you are thinking about what might not happen in the future if something goes wrong. Being patient is simply recognizing any moment for what it is. A line is long because it is long, not for the sole purpose of messing up your day. A person who makes a mistake that you think could have been avoided is more than likely doing their best, and a little guidance from someone else might be all they need to be more productive and to have a better day. The point is that it doesn’t matter if you’re dealing with a teller at a bank, your kids or your spouse, practice patience and understanding over being impatient and mean and you and those around you will see the world in a much brighter light.
It’s What You Give That You Get
The rules of life are mysterious and nobody knows them for sure, we take guesses based on experience but there is no rule book to guide you. One thing that I have found to be true is that what you give in life, most often you get back. If your focus is on solely meeting your needs, then you are probably going to be surrounded by people who are solely focused on their needs. The same is true for love if you are focused on making sure those you care about are having their needs met, then you are going to find that others are looking out for yours. It is what you give that you get, for the most part in my experience.
Love Stinks When You Lose Your Focus
If you have ever been in love, you know that it is the greatest feeling in all of the world. To care about someone so much and know they care about you. It is so great that often times we lose our focus on the love and focus on the fear of losing it.
This is what happens when jealousy enters the picture. Jealousy is a powerful manifestation of fear and can work to not only destroy a loving relationship but rob you of any enjoyment that relationship might bring you. Fear of losing the love that means so much to you is a recipe to lose everything you have. That is my experience that fear is the destroyer of relationships and needs to be discarded on a regular basis. Focus on the things that you love and they will be accentuated.
So I hope that all of you people who love this day have a great time today. Those of you who dislike this day because of the fact that it is over commercialized foolishness, trying to make money off of the purest emotion in the world, I wish you the biggest and best Valentine’s Day you have ever had. You deserve it.
