Sometimes we want something so badly that it is the zenith of our conscious thought. We dwell on it and obsess about it all the time. This often leads to desperation to make something happen to force it, and sorrow is one of the most potent repulsive vibrations.
Your focus turns to what you don’t have, creating a paradox of intention. A paradox s an absurd and contradictory statement. Who would t want to win a game? Find a perfect relationship? Have a million dollars in the bank? Desperation creates a paradox in energy and brings more of that focused lack to you—the exact opposite of your stated intention. Failure I read of success is the result, but it isn’t fatal because repulsive vibrations can be adjusted to attractive vibrations with a bit of open-mindedness.
Do You Trust?
Some people see the world and see too many obstacles to overcome; others see the same field and growth opportunities. How we vi, life will drive us to experience the achievement of our goals. Developing the belief that we can accomplish our desires, regardless of our current situation, is the first step to trust and allowing. Too often, our focus is continually on what we don’t have rather than what we do have, and then it only makes sense that 
more of what you don’t have is coming your way. The low vi rations of desperation will not attract very much, but that is OK when higher vibrations are available with a quick change of focus and thought.
Unfortunately, the thoughts we entertain can seem like a part of us, and we refuse to look at any other option because we all have underlying human fears and emotions. What if we trust and it doesn’t work? What if we try and fail anyway? All legit ate and valid thoughts most people have at once or another. The better question is, why not try something different to see what happens? When one t it doesn’t work, it is common sense to give another a try. Get rid of the feelings of despair and choose peace in the present moment instead.
Why It Works Like This
It is impossible to be happy when we are dissatisfied with our current situation—creating an obsession with getting what we don’t have draws even more lack to us. Even when there are plenty of reasons to enjoy the present moment, they have been shoved aside to focus on the things we might have in the future, and then 
we will be happy. Instead o enjoying our life, we spend our time longing for more and focusing on getting it. That nagging g is feeling something is missing, and we could be happy if we only had it.
Suppose you believe that energy exists in all people and situations. In that ca e, this is a mistake because giving away today’s happiness to embrace misery about what we don’t have now but might have tomorrow shows a lack of willingness to receive. This is a shift from a mentality of appreciation to a consciousness of lack and need. And when w make that choice, we lose our power to succeed. All relationships and experiences follow this law, especially love. If we ask for simple observation of our situation and are not where we want to be, it is time to try something different.
Why it Matters
When we focus all our thoughts through the filter of wanting something else, the results come to us, and then we are setting ourselves up for failure and projecting a desperate feeling of misery. That is, looking for something else coming down the line to make you happy rather than choosing the happiness right in front of us every day. This thou t pattern causes us to view our current situation as not good enough. How can w bring more if we are not grateful for what we have today?
This is a subtle energy that will sabotage our efforts at success if we leave them unchecked. How much t me are you spending thinking about what is wrong with your life rather than right? That does t mean we accept everything as good, but we find the good we have and focus on that. There are ways something positive for us to think about. To avoid e abrasive energy that sabotages our efforts at success and accept the vibrations that come to us when we are grateful and appreciative of what we do have is one of the most significant decisions we make every day. We need t be wary of pumping out a broadcast of despair, which brings more desperate situations and feelings of hopelessness.
The Silver Lining
Changing your thought patterns is as easy as being willing to do so. It is an escapable truth that our emotions are all charged with either positive or negative energy and vibrations. The posit e, uplifting ones are accused of the uplifting creative flow and the best results. The negative e ones create blocks and problems that keep us from what we want. But our emotions are tied inevitably and constantly to the thoughts we entertain in our minds. We need t be conscious of our reviews, and if we desire different results from what we currently have, we must be willing and open to change. Let go of urgency and desperation and engage in thoughts of gratitude for what we have, and trust that what will come is what we need and in our best interest. Shift your concentration from what you lack to all you have to appreciate to create a consciousness of success.
Remember, Don’t worry about a thing, because every little thing will be alright.
