What is the most desirable trait another person can possess?
I think it is impossible to pick one trait another person can possess. So many factors contribute to a personality and allow you to get to know someone in a real and genuine way. So many people I have met don’t show you their true selves anyway because you would stay far away if they did.
To narrow the multitude of traits to one would be much too difficult to do in the short time I have to write this to give five traits I think are desirable in others. I could probably come up with twenty without working too hard, but the list of five will have to do. I am sure they are easy to find.
Be Positive Or Go Home
Many people spend so much time worrying about the things they don’t have that they miss out on all of the great things right in front of them. The great thing 
is that this behavior is all choice.
It is raining out. One person complains incessantly and lets it ruin their day and everyone around them. The other looks at it as a great opportunity to wear that colorful raincoat and those new rain boots.
Being positive is a state of mind, and the negative person is always a chore to spend time with. Being with a positive person makes the time fly by because it is enjoyable no matter what happens.
Life is only going to give you a finite collection of experiences, and it is your decision if you want not to enjoy them. I prefer to enjoy each of them to the best of my ability, and positive people make that happen. So you really have to choose your company well. If someone does not see the positive, think about finding someone who will.
Honesty Is The Best Policy
There are few people in the world that you can trust to be honest about important things. That doesn’t mean little white lies should always be frowned on because 
sometimes people don’t need to know your opinion. However, open and honest communication must build any type of relationship, romantic or friendship.
The big things have to be dealt with honestly. From your hopes and dreams to financial matters, honesty is not only the best policy but the only policy I think leads to long-term success in building a relationship that will last longer than a short six months.
Just because you haven’t been “caught” in a lie, once you lie, the relationship changes; usually, you are lying because you are hiding something. Whatever that is. Something you did or something about yourself: dishonesty is a hurtful, painful thing to impose on someone you theoretically care about.
Once you start hiding things from someone you love, the list of things you are hiding will continue to grow. Soon you won’t be able to remember which things you should be hiding.
When the truth comes out, and it will eventually, no explanation can work. So always be honest, stop doing things that you would have to lie about, and be much happier. But, more importantly, so will all the people in your life.
Laughing with Me Not At Me
Being able to laugh at life and, more specifically, at my sense of humor is one trait I look for. In addition, I enjoy laughing and sharing a laugh with someone else.
There is no way you can do that with someone sober in thought all the time. Laughter is the best medicine for almost any problem.
Some believe that laughter can lower your blood pressure and help you lose weight. All I know is that laughter makes you happy and makes you feel good. Have you ever been mad when you have laughed uncontrollably? Of course not. There is nothing to do but appreciate the humor of the situation.
There are only so many moments in life, and it seems like we shouldn’t waste the funny ones spending time with people who have little to no sense of humor. Or spend too much time worrying about themselves to see the joy in many moments. So I don’t judge them, I prefer to leave them sitting in a quiet, dark house, and I will enjoy the laughter that comes naturally with life.
The Smart Choice
Intelligence is another trait that I look for in others. I do not know where I would rate myself on the scale of intelligence, but I know that I value the brains and want to spend time with these people. The intellect of the company you keep will determine how much you can gain from those interactions. Intelligence is one of the most attractive qualities I have seen in a woman. The ability to think, theorize, teach, and grow is the ultimate in individualism.
Perhaps I hope it will rub off on me, but I know that intellect and intelligence are desirable. There is something about a smart woman that makes my knees go weak. I am not sure if intelligence is that way for everyone, but it is definitely for me. There is always time for silliness in life, but also there is a time for serious discussion and thought. It is nice to have someone around who can share competently in both.
I could probably list many more traits like kind, caring, loving, punctual, accepting, tough, athletic, talented, and that is without much thought. The fact of the matter is that there are many great people in the world, and they all have a unique set of traits that make them special, and I appreciate them all. But that still leaves the question for you:
What is the most desirable trait another person can possess?
One other trait must appreciate Dire Straits…
Of all the possessions we have, time is the most valuable. Each of us has an invisible hourglass in which the sands of our lives are flowing continually. Unfortunately, we can’t see how much sand we have left, and ours could run out at any moment. This fact should make people treasure every second. If you knew today was your last day, then what would you do? What would you say? Who would you want to spend your time with?
