I think we are all trying to establish positive momentum in our lives, but we make choices that make moving forward with confidence impossible. That is when we allow thoughts, emotions, and actions into our life of a toxic nature. These things will seep into all areas of our lives, destroy our confidence in ourselves and make us paranoid about life. Each moment will become a worry something is going to go wrong, or the worst will happen. What are these toxic thoughts? In a word, fear. But we can overcome fear with some of the most positive tools in our mental toolbox. In particular, HOPE.
Fear of the Future
Where will I be tomorrow? What is going to happen to me? These questions and worrying about the answers can bring more toxic emotions to your life than you can handle. Many people spend an awful lot of their time, energy, and thoughts on what the future will bring, and most are focusing on the negative things that might happen. What may suffering be on the horizon? Whatever there are, our minds come 
up with things that are much, much worse. This misuse of imagination will take you out of the moment you have right now and ruin it with worry and fear about what could be coming down the road.
The moment is the key to defeating this fear. Look at what you have right now, for sure, in your life and find things to be grateful about. Do you have some time off? Are there people in your life you love? And that love you back? Be grateful for these things and focus your attention on these real things happening in your life right now. Of course, you always plan for the future, but you can’t worry about it and carry fear in your heart. Know there will be challenges in your life. That is what living is. Have a hope that all things will work out for the best and leave the fear of the future behind you, and you will defeat one toxic fear.
Rejection
From an early age to old age, being rejected by someone is a difficult pill to swallow. There is no good way to experience it, and suffering is the result. This causes many people to become gun shy about taking chances and going after the things they 
want. Fear of being rejected can stop you from even attempting to accomplish things you dream about. Everyone can establish this fear early on in their life, and negative beliefs about yourself and life can make this fear even more toxic.
The best way to defeat this fear is to stand yourself up, dust yourself off, and give it one more try. Learn what you can from the rejection you perceive in life. Take those lessons and make your next job the best, your next relationship more solid and loving, or become stronger on the inside. There is a strength inside each of us that can push us back to all challenges we face, including being rejected. You know the worth you bring to the world. Own it. Hope again can empower you to be the greatest version of yourself and overcome the toxic fear of rejection.
What if you Fail?
We can take the same route with a fear of failure. Many projects, ideas, and creations are killed before they come to fruition because of the initial fear they might not work. What will people think? We live in a society that has no allowance for failing. Our school system rewards a lack of thinking and the ability to memorize and regurgitate information. Rather than encourage people to attempt to learn things, occasionally, in the process, you will have setbacks, and in those 
setbacks, the potential for ultimate success exists. Try again, with the new knowledge you have gained.
We created virtually every major accomplishment in the history of humanity through the process of trial and error. The Wright Brothers didn’t get their plane off the ground on the first try. Thomas Edison certainly didn’t invent the light bulb on the first go. No, it was a process of trial and error and learning. Information needs to be gained through our failure to create greatness. Be confident in yourself. Try what you think will work without a personal attachment to the outcome. Then you can unemotionally evaluate the information you gain and use it to be better. The toxic fear of failure will cause you to quit. The hope of creating anything will come into reality with this recipe.
Fear Nothing
So the challenge is made to you and me today, not to let the fear of the future, rejection, or failure become a toxic force in your life. Rather use the power of hope to guide you to becoming the best version of yourself. Fear is a negative thought you give power to, and it will never accomplish anything positive for you. It will only limit your potential and kill your dreams. Even if the worst should happen, you can find the inner strength to grow from it and continue with your life. Fear is a choice, and so is hope. It is up to you.
“Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. The fearful are caught as often as the bold.” —Helen Keller.
“One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn’t do.” —Henry Ford
“I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away with fear.” —Rosa Parks.
“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.” —Nelson Mandela.
